Don’t Worry about How to Get A Girl to Like You Again

In learning how to get a girl to like you again, remember that women in general are forgiving. More so than most men. They are nurturing, caring and they will forgive you for just about anything. Regardless of the front they put up.

They want to care, sometimes they care a little too much. Even if they seem really miffed at you, keep in mind that women love drama.

There are women who take verbal and physical beatings from their boyfriends and husbands and always go back to them and sometimes never even leave them at all. Sometimes they’re scared to leave the abusive man, but many times it’s because they still have feelings for them even after all the violence.

how-to-get-a-girl-to-like-you-again-02Some girls will put up with just about anything. So whatever it is you did or said to her, chances are she’s been through worse.

But regardless of how serious the situation is, you probably won’t be in the right frame of mind to deal with it properly. If you’re worried about it or stressed out about what happened you won’t be thinking straight.

You’re going to act out of desperation and do stupid things to worsen the matter. That’s not how to get a girl to like you again.

Ask yourself this:

Do you feel like you have to do something about it immediately? Like it can’t wait another second?

If the answer is yes, you need to stop right now. Don’t take any actions while you are so consumed by the thoughts of her. Do not apologize. Do not send notes. Do not send gifts. Do nothing.

Don’t do anything while you’re in that state of mind. Relax. Re-group. Get your head together. Realize it’s not the end of the world and that forcing things and rushing will only make matters worse.

Take some time out and concentrate on something else for awhile. Watch a movie, do a hobby, whatever. Take your mind off it for a bit.

While you’re getting your head together, she can take time to register whats happened. Once the initial disaster is over, many times things don’t seem so bad after the dust has cleared.

Once you turn your attention back to the situation, you can look at it from a whole new perspective. While you’re obsessed with the ‘problem’ it seems your whole world is crashing down. When you look at it in a new light you can realize its not a problem at all, but a situation.

 ”Whether you think you can or think you can’t, you’re right” -Henry Ford

The point of view determines how you feel. If you see that things are bad, they’re bad. If you realize it’s no big deal, it’s no big deal.

How many times have you dreaded a certain deadline, meeting, etc. You would think about how bad it was going to be or just plain worried about it. But when that day came it was never as bad as you speculated.

The botton line is not to get worked up over it. Don’t worry about something before it’s time to worry. And when you think it is time to worry, don’t worry, it isn’t.

It’s time to learn how to get a girl to like you again.

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